4 common ideas for investing and picking up girls

Do investors pick up girls?

Of course, we do. We can even use similar rules and ideas both for investing and picking up. These four are my favorite:

Accept the failure.

You can’t always succeed. No matter if it concerns investing, approaching women or anything else in life. Failure is something you must accept. The sooner you will do this, the better for you. Remember, each failure gives feedback. Use it wisely. Don’t blame yourself and be angry. Try to find out where the reason of your failure is and how you can avoid it in future.

Have a good opener.

Opener is a short gambit which you use to initiate conversation with a woman. It should create small interest in you and help to continue interaction. Some guys claim that it doesn’t matter what you say, but I don’t thing you can say absolutely anything. A good opener is a good opener. It is very important as it has to buy you more time.

When it concerns investing, it is very important to gain, right after opening a new position. When you lose at the beginning, sometimes it can have a bad psychological effect on you. Negative emotions appear and it is likely you would perform wrong actions based upon them.

Stop when things don’t go your way.

If things are not on your track, quit quickly and gently. Don’t make yourself an idiot around the woman. Show your value, be a leader and build attraction towards you. If you are standing on you head to grab her attention, it is definitely not a good sign. In best case, it will finish with LJBF (let’s just be friends). We don’t want that.

Similar rules are on the stock market. Cut your losses. You don’t want to keep stocks which suck your money away.

Approach many women.

Approach many, many, many women. Different (of course, attractive) women, at different places and different time. The more attempts, the higher chances of success. Of course, you need to accept possibility of failures. Otherwise, it would be very difficult to follow this rule. By approaching many women, you will get a lot of experience, build confidence and master your openers.

Doesn’t it look like kind of diversification?

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